Humility: The Truth about Yourself
In life, sometimes occurs two ways: that of humility or of pride, the former always has a happy ending, the second ends badly. This value takes the person to know and accept the reality of his life, never underestimated or believe than others.
Humility is the attitude derived from knowledge of limitations and that is to act without pride. This value takes the person to know and accept the reality of his life, never underestimated or believe than others. It’s the truth about you.
Humility does not mean “lazy”, lack of character or weakness, because you cannot call it a virtue denoting purity of soul and peace of mind “, nor the arrogance is a sign of strength.
Then I remembered the words of St. Thomas: “Pride is the inordinate love of one’s own excellence.” Pride blinds the man, unable to accept it or see its flaws and for that reason, cannot correct them. The humble man on the other hand, when it detects a twisted branch, you can straighten it, even if it hurts.
The benefits of humility
Covadonga O’Shea, in his book “In Search of values”, makes an interesting analysis in its chapter on humility. The author based on his experience, knowledge and learning from others says that humility provides a state of alert and admiration for the work of others. Similarly, states: “Anyone who has a humble attitude in daily life is always open to advice, not because our intelligence, but because we have much of others. Another positive result of someone trying to be humble is that this virtue will not let us believe that we have reached the summit in any way, nor blind us to the point of not seeing how much we have to go forward and lead us have others. “
So, humility is a way to happiness, because it lives in harmony with others, is valued at himself in the same way that assess those around you, you experience serenity, tranquility and develops the ability to support mistakes, facilitates forgiveness, makes the criticism becomes a possibility of growth, and finally, removes the external pressure and fear to appear as a perfect being, which is not possible under any view.
Humility in action
Humility goes beyond words. Living with humility to recognize their mistakes and also to communicate who was offended. A clear example is when parents are wrong in any act with the children, which is valid and necessary to apologize, which is far from a decline of authority. This gesture of humility, in addition to the personal growth it represents, will teach children that although human beings make mistakes, have the right to correct errors, thus achieving overcome difficulties without affecting the natural course of life.
Also is humble when in the role of leaders (within social groups, work, etc…) Learning from others and is recognized in the other his worth as a human. Also recognize their strengths, but not crushing exalts the other.
Keys to encourage humility
The book “Little Guide to Human Values,” presents the following keys do not fall into behaviors that denote a lack of humility or modesty
* Be aware that you have virtues, but also defects, and to acknowledge without detracting from it.
* Differentiate constructive criticism of an unprovoked attack and not be intimidated by baseless accusations.
* Knowing what our rightful place within the family, society, etc., And try to fulfill our mission as well as possible without encroaching on other people.
* To try to improve and excel without being crushed by adversity.
* Always show our true face without masks or disguises.
* Be hard worker and persevering in our efforts to improve and grow.
* To love ourselves and those around us to forgive and forgive mistakes.
* Be sensitive and kind to others.
* Keep the simplicity and accessibility that can earn the respect and affection of those around us.
