Divorce and The Consequences for Children
The number of divorces and separations has increased considerably in recent years. Its means that many children will be entering into situations for which they are unprepared. And although we think it’s better than the couple continues to live separate from conflict situations of coexistence, doubtless, a separation affects their children.
In any case, if the children living in unsuitable situations, for example, constant fights, arguments, ending abuse, alcoholism or drug problems, and that the example of their father or mother is not the most appropriate be more beneficial to them than their parents separate. This proved that the children are much more in situations where parents are unhappy when they decide to live together than apart. Children want to feel that their parents are happy. It is important to consider that by taking the decision to separate is analyzed first the relationship with the children, they may undergo changes, the reasons must be presented to the children, and especially that its decision does not affect or compromise the basic needs of children. The child will continue to need love, care, attention, support, understanding, etc.
Separated parents and children
Although separated, the couple is no longer a marriage partner but never cease to be a couple of parents for their children. Remember that children have rights and basic needs like food, shelter, care regarding health, education, clothing, in short, attention of all kinds. Children will only feel safe if there is a climate of trust, respect, and affection with their parents. Whereas these rights, parents should offer an education based on the values of optimism, responsibility and family, providing their children with a civilized, inclusive social and observing the behavior of their children and to stand by their side in all times when you need it and not just during set visits. All of that apart from the financial obligations for the maintenance of all basic needs of children.
