In any case, if the children living in unsuitable situations, for example, constant fights, arguments, ending abuse, alcoholism or drug problems, and that the example of their father or mother is not the most appropriate be more beneficial to them than their parents separate. This proved that the children are much more in situations where parents are unhappy when they decide to live together than apart. Children want to feel that their parents are happy. It is important to consider that by taking the decision to separate is analyzed first the relationship with the children, they may undergo changes, the reasons must be presented to the children, and especially that its decision does not affect or compromise the basic needs of children. The child will continue to need love, care, attention, support, understanding, etc.

Separated parents and children
Although separated, the couple is no longer a marriage partner but never cease to be a couple of parents for their children. Remember that children have rights and basic needs like food, shelter, care regarding health, education, clothing, in short, attention of all kinds. Children will only feel safe if there is a climate of trust, respect, and affection with their parents. Whereas these rights, parents should offer an education based on the values of optimism, responsibility and family, providing their children with a civilized, inclusive social and observing the behavior of their children and to stand by their side in all times when you need it and not just during set visits. All of that apart from the financial obligations for the maintenance of all basic needs of children.

During long been debated in the medical field about the implications of a first pregnancy after age 35, among which include infertility and the possible diseases that may develop on the baby and the mother.

According to experts, from the 30 years the number of adulatory cycles and therefore reduces the fertility rate drops to 40%, the possibility of sterility is six times higher than at 20 and doubles again to 40. After 45 years, there is very little chance of getting pregnant using their own eggs, in part due to the onset of menopause or pre-menopause, in which there is a permanent cessation of ovarian adulatory activity.

Difficulties in pregnancy after 40 years

On entering the age of 40 are more likely to develop problems such as hypertension, abnormal sugar metabolism (gestational diabetes), placental changes, complications at childbirth, and chromosomal disorders among which is the Down Syndrome.

“Women over 40 have a higher risk of giving birth to a baby with low weight or premature baby. The percentages of babies born dead are also higher and studies show that children born to older mothers are at increased risk of type 1 diabetes and high blood pressure.

Outside of the physical conditions, the delay of motherhood also brings other consequences:

1. The natural cycle of human beings implies a decline in the vitality and energy with the passage of time, therefore, begin educating children at 40 years or more, can be more exhausting for parents.
2. Also in men there are some drawbacks that occur with age. Although they are physically able to generate life after 60 and even years later, sperm quality deteriorates with age and the percentage of genetic defects is higher than the sperm of younger men.
3. Concerning the financial issue, the retirement age could be delayed a few years, because if not previously made a wise saving and programs to address the physical needs of children, will be more difficult in the productive phase as 20 to 48 years.
4. Also the life and health insurance also tend to raise its price over the years the beneficiary.

Benefits of early parenthood

“Young” does not mean “teenagers” but an optimal age where men and women in their status as spouses, have the maturity necessary to conceive a child. In youth to ensure everything is given new life to the physical and psychological conditions necessary for the education and upbringing.

In short, a child will always be welcomed as a great blessing, regardless of age, the body of the woman is in a better position in their youth.

These situations are increasingly found in families that are left inadvertently overlook the most important area of communication with their children.

On most occasions when I’ve met parents who have difficulties with their children, did not share this space with them, how to realize then what happened to them during the day? How do they eat? Etc. I guess when we got home all we want to find safe protected, valued, welcomed, accepted, … but when any of our children do not have this feeling, how then ask her to behave, to examine who is responsible, and so on.? The children need this dedication and someone, either the father or the mother is important to share those moments.

How can then this area of communication around food?

To begin specialists say there should be a habit of your family, at least one meal a day. On this basis, we may agree which of the meals we can strive to be together, and how that space will be for that. We must give them preferential treatment and exclusive focus on us, where the external noise, whether the phone, mobile, television, etc expelled from that time. Who has not had the feeling of not being heard when he takes all the attention is television and not the person you are talking for example?

Besides the fact that in that space are absent this type of noise has to be relaxed, stress free and banal discussions. If we do this we associate this time of the meal to something fundamentally positive and pleasant, instilling in our children that food is a space where one is good.

In addition to this space to encourage and enable food:

* Promote the sharing of tasks, this would involve them in activity which may be from food preparation to pick what is the table. And with that we are helping them to assume responsibility and thus they are valued and will help them self-confidence and self esteem.

* Educate on healthy behaviors to detect any alterations or eating disorders.

* The appropriate communication. Where we can give our children the opportunity to tell us how was your day, things that are proposed in the family, say that it is also a family reunion, where you can and should encourage participation. Should not forget that good communication to be effective it needs good and proper listen, sometimes you have to respect the silence.

The conclusion to all this is that we teach our children to promote their autonomy, while we create a positive environment that reinforces our family ties act as protective and preventive factor towards future behaviors in our children.

In different circumstances, some families are made up of father, mother and child (a), and this family structure requires extra effort from parents, which is to give the child the necessary tools to keep their status as “only” affects you their educational development, and later as adults.

It is also true that the only child can be more creative because it must find ways to entertain him also has good relationships with adults and may look older (psychologically) for their constant imitation and observation of the adults around him.

Being excellent virtues, the only son is also difficult some others, which is up to parents to provide these “gaps” to avoid becoming a selfish, capricious, vain and weak to establish relationships with their peers.

A family educator, said: “The most important thing to keep in mind the parents who decide to have one child, that child does not give much relevance in the home that may come to believe is unique in the world . Even if he or she can be very special for your dad and mom, is as special as the other children for the rest of the parents. And it will be hard to accept if it is convinced that the only being exceptional in the world and those around you who must live bent to his will. “

As always, it is valid to clarify that not all only children behave the same way, because if the parents do a good job, they will not have to contend with this inconvenience.

The four main challenges facing parents of only children are:

* Strengthen the generosity.

Having no siblings, the child can make it difficult to share. It can also be somewhat intolerant on the issue of coexistence not be obliged to give in to the spaces, material things, etc. A good strategy to neutralize this potential weakness is to invite you to give away toys they no longer use but are in good shape, spend time with other children and to set limits and rules to control their appetites.

In some cases it works that boys take charge of a pet, because the fact of ensuring their care, food, cleanliness … take them to strive, to make them more accountable, and generous with their time.                                                        

* Develop social skills.

It is quite natural in the child who has no brothers, who feel some loneliness. Even when surrounded by much love from their parents, grandparents and other family, every child needs to have friends their own age. Again, we must ensure open spaces for leisure activities with other children, not just in their school or preschool, but also outside of these school settings. This should start from social skills that are small and cash them a little introduction, other groups, so that when you are older is not an impediment.

It is likely that the parent-child relationship is more rooted attachment to normal and those momentary separations (such as travel, admission to college, etc…) It can be somewhat difficult. This will require setting times of separation, such that the child goes to sleep at a friend’s house, sharing with the cousins for a weekend, etc.

* Beware of exclusive parental attention.

It is understandable that parents are very apprehensive, more than it should-with his only son, but this much attention makes them great harm to both. This risk should be avoided because it usually excess is accompanied by over-attention, which causes considerable personal training process.

The only child has parents all to himself, does not have to share with anyone else and so it has your full attention. When there is no restraint on the part of parents, it is likely that the child was moody and look again is the center of attention at all costs, which will bring enough trouble.

So  when the child has difficulty with other children either in school or in other contexts, parents should support but not blindly defend the point of preventing suffering, as he must learn to deal with these situations are quite common in the rest of his life.                                                                                                                     

* Boost safety, self-esteem and independence.

For the same reason explained in the previous section, these boys are too dependent on their parents. Care should be taken that will go to the normal rhythm of their peers and begin developing physical and intellectual skills appropriate to their age. So parents should object to do things they are able to do, like let alone eat, dress, do their homework, prepare clothes and all the tasks of daily living.

Baby jogging strollers is not only provide women with opportunities to exercise but fun for their kids, too. The mother can easily bring their children out with them for jogging or running with minimal disruption. A question may arise here that how children can enjoy the baby carriage. The train was busy keeping the children while their mothers jogging or running. They are involved in exploring the new environment and are happy to continue to move with their mother. This train is the easiest way to transport them together.

One thing to keep in mind strong. Children must be over the age of twelve months instead lost his balance could bring harm. Apart from this, the mothers can easily enjoy their sport without worrying about leaving their children at home. The mother can easily supervise children while jogging. Jogging stroller is the ideal choice for mothers who want to exercise regularly.